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I am more..

I am more..

This past weekend my mother went to a “party” a farewell party for a friends husband who had past away a few weeks ago. This was held at a pub as that is what “bob” had asked for..My mother called me and made the most profound statement. “Miranda” she said ” Bob was more than just an old man…but I think we all forget that” – My mom is right..When we are babies, our families, friends and strangers just can’t get enough of our cuteness…We become children..teenagers..adults…all with significant life experiences and changes…then we become seniors..our children are grown up and moved on…our grandchildren visit every so often..we are old. But we weren’t always that way.. My mom’s friends husband “Bob” was a writer..he was a father and he was a husband..He enjoyed his bit of cider every evening and loved his computer. “Bob” was more than just an old man…He was at one point like you and me.

In my work with OPSWA, I see many elderly I meet many elderly…and one thing I see to often is that they are “forgotten”. These individuals that were once a CEO, Nurse, Doctor, Engineer, teacher..mother, father, sister, brother. boyfriend, girlfriend, best friend,, husband, wife and the list goes on. They sculpted this society that we enjoy today and what do we do? We give them homecare with no substance. Long term care with the threat of abuse and substandard care. Hospitals that forget they are human. Okay maybe I am speaking to the worst situations but they are out there and they happen more than we care to admit. These very people who one day WILL be YOU or ME, are not receiving the care they rightly DESERVE and that makes me sad, very very sad.

The individuals who care for them – Family Caregivers or Personal Support Workers have a daunting task. Not enough support or tools but tons’ of passion to give them the best care possible.  PSWs need all the support they can get to provide proper care, so we should all be on the sidelines rooting and cheering on the PSW as apposed to trying to bring them down. PSWs are the future of Healthcare. PSWs will be providing care to someone you know – your loved one OR YOU at somepoint in your life. PSWs are the heartbeat of frontline care. Let’s help them provide quality care and let’s remember those like “Bob” as more than “just an elderly person”

Written by Miranda Ferrier/President/OPSWA

New Blogger for OPSWA

It’s a new year so new things are coming from OPSWA again 🙂

I am super excited to announce our not so new Blogger Stefanie Nucci aka APSWLIFE. Stefanie is not new to OPSWA – many of you will know her as our Communications Liaison. 

When I met Stefanie, she had already been blogging for her own blog APSWLIFE, speaking to the reality of being a Personal Support Worker. I was so impressed by her writing and her honesty we just had to have her at the association. So I invite you to have a look at her Blog and her Website, both of which I am proud to say are now officially a branch of the Ontario Personal Support Worker Association.

Welcome again Stef! 

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We are thrilled to have you!

Your friends/family at OPSWA

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New Years Message from President of OPSWA Miranda Ferrier

New Years Message from President of OPSWA Miranda Ferrier

As we bring 2014 to a close, it is always neat to look back on what has happened in the past year and how far OPSWA has come for PSWs.

I have been striving for PSWs through PSW Canada and now OPSWA since 2006. What a journey it has been…

As a Personal Support Worker myself, I see and understand all the difficulties PSWs deal with today. When I see this. I want Change. Through OPSWA over the past year, I have met with some very influential people..I have made partnerships with employers and organizations dedicated to the Professionalization of Personal Support Workers. We have and will continue to strive for a better tomorrow for PSWs and those in our care. Why? Because YOU Deserve it. Not just “anyone” can do our job. It takes a very special sort of person to be a PSW. And not all PSWs that are PSWs should be! And thats where OPSWA comes in. We have set standards, We have raised the bar for PSWs and we have NEVER stopped nor changed our message. Recognition for PSWs. Respect for PSWs. and Standards for PSWs.

I believe the association has delivered on all three. We have brought recognition to PSWs by our relationships with media, organizations, family councils, MPP’s, MPs and the list goes on. Through that recognition comes respect. Respect for what you do! For what you provide for Ontario’s most vulnerable!

And we have set the standard. This year OPSWA in partnership with Right at Home Canada was thrilled to unveil our Scope of Practice and our many Standards of Practice for our PSWs. It was a lot of work, but well worth it for Ontario’s PSW!

One thing that OPSWA has done fully is take ownership of the PSW of Ontario. You ask me what that is? Ownership means we accept you all and we accept everything that comes along with it. Our goal is to continue to support, guide and represent PSWs as your Professional Association. We will continue to set Standards and build towards a better tomorrow for all PSWs, that is my promise to you all.

2014 was a huge victory for OPSWA, Bringing over 11,000 PSWs together under one solid Association. All of our PSWs are actual PSWs – all being thoroughly vetted for Criminal, schooling, ID Checks. Making sure that our PSWs stand out among the crowd. We couldn’t be more proud of that.

So here’s to another year of pissing people off, making a difference and most of all SUPPORTING and ROOTING for Ontario PSWs!

I wish you all the best for 2015.

Remember, OPSWA has your back. No matter what. 10413299_10152550973526448_467233019680129087_n

Miranda Ferrier

President

Ontario Personal Support Worker Association

PSWs are NOT alone.

Lately I have been watching our PSWs talk on our Facebook group and one constant has remained – as PSWs we are alone.

That remark is untrue. As PSWs in the province of Ontario YOU have a professional Association. There is NO other province in Canada that as a Professional Association for PSWs. We offer you protection, answers to your questions, a listening ear! We offer health benefits, discounts on insurance, resources, help with resume/career building, upgrading, advocacy but most importantly a VOICE.

Some PSWs have asked us why aren’t we in Thunder bay? Why aren’t we in Kenora? Why don’t we do things up north?

The answer to that is simple. We do. We have PSWs in all those areas but very few! In order to have upgrading for our members we NEED members.

OPSWA is a volunteer association – every person that sits on a board or committee or works every single day to bring positive change for our PSWs is a volunteer – nonetheless they are volunteers with TONS of passion and drive.

Without OPSWA – the PSWs of Ontario would not have a voice – there would be no PSW around the table for the PSW Registry – there would be NO ONE defending the Personal Support Worker with anyone – there would be no one for PSWs to rely upon.

So I guess some PSWs are right – if you are not a member of OPSWA – I guess you are alone. So join and become a Professional PSW. Make the move to improve YOUR future.

Miranda Ferrier

President

Ontario Support Worker Association (OPSWA)

MFerrier@opswa.com

http://www.opswa.com

Merry Christmas & Old Folks

 

Blogs are hard to write lately.  Reason? Overload of upcoming holidays, working as a rep for OPSWA! (the best thing I ever did in my life) and part-time caregiver to the most darling girl in the world.

 

Its December.  Hard to believe another year has flown by.

I have hope, I have vision and I will continue fighting as an advocate for elderly and vulnerable clients across the province of Ontario and across Canada as a member of OPSWA.  I heard the other day that the difference between a dream and a goal is a timeline!  I dont have a timeline…it is not visible to me yet.  But I will continue to dream & work toward that goal of PSWs united across the province in education, support, professionalism and quality.

 

Today I am inspired to write about Old Folks!

I have experienced a lot in my life – and thankfully almost everything I have done has been a lesson to me.  The very biggest lesson in my life was taking on the job of a caregiver.

 

I did it blindly as a teenager – not prepared for it as courses were not available back in the Stone Age ( I am talking the mid 1960s)

 

Hard to believe isnt it?  One of the most important jobs in health care – no preparation.  Mind you things have improved and now we have a new title in Ontario – Personal Support Workers

and we do have a course that trains PSWs in many skills and strengths.  My Christmas wish is to get education standardized across the province.

 

But I digress.  I want to comment on Old Folks.  They are the ones PSWs care for.  Not always – but mostly.  Other important groups we serve are individuals with early onset dementia, brain injury, special needs, cognitively delayed – so many fascinating people I have met in my life.

 

Old Folks!

I am one – or almost.  I am over 60 and on the slippery slope toward end of life..ooops..did I say that?  Yep…as a senior on Twitter I am learning all kinds of things and EOL – is one of them.  Each of us is heading there.  We don’t think about it much when we are in our teens and early adult years.  But when you are a PSW – its something you see every day.  When you are an Old Folk its more than seeing..its believing.  To Old Folk, every day is precious.  No matter if you are facing cancer, or dementia or if you are in fairly good health..each day is important.

 

I don’t believe that Old Folk purposely wake up grouchy in the mornings..but if you do find one of us in a bad mood…perhaps you could think about why?

 

– not happy to have the overhead lights turned on at 6 am sharp and forced to be dressed or bathed or both – and then have to wait til 8 or later for cold oatmeal and soggy toast?

 

– didn’t sleep well despite pain meds and has achy joints and Just got to sleep an hour ago!

– nothing to get up for – no one will visit me today.

 

– breakfast? can live without it – but they wont give me tea and toast in my room because I MUST attend the dining room in order to be socially involved and participating.  Bah Humbug!

 

Does this give you some perspective on your grouchy clients?  I hope so.  Cause one day I am going to be in that bed when you come in and flip that light switch.

 

Be kind to me…speak softly, put a small light on..give me a chance to open my eyes and feel human.  Treat me with respect and kindness becauseI need that.  I don.t get hugs, cuddles, or kind words very often.  Perhaps my husband died, or I am alone far away from children and family.  Perhaps I am scared.  Perhaps I am tired, depressed and in pain.

 

You may have a special event planned tonight – you may have a party to go to or a concert with your partner or family.   I have very little to look forward to.  My family is scattered across the province or country.  They won’t see me over the holidays.   I may be able to read a book or not.  I may be able to enjoy a TV show or not.  I may lay there sleepless til 3 am – listening to call bells, listening to staff talk in the halls…wishing I could find a snack but I can’t get out of bed and the staff are too busy and can’t find anything great in the fridge anyway…

 

When you look at things through others’ eyes – you may understand why Old Folks are grouchy.

Especially Old Folk in care.

 

Give them the benefit of the doubt.  Remember that Christmas time is not that happy for someone who is in retirement or LTC.  They get few visitors.  They have few cards or gifts.  They maybe can’t enjoy the turkey dinner because they can no longer eat certain foods.  They need us more than ever, even just to get out of bed – or maybe to turn over or reposition.  They need PSWs to enrich their life, bring sunshine and energy into their room.

 

I hope you will report back and tell me how many smiles, hugs, words of kindness you get back for being an inspiration in their day.

Thank you to all PSWs who give up their Christmas with their kids to care for others.  Thank you for sharing your energy and time with those who have little to look forward to.  I will be “on duty” over Christmas.  I would not be anywhere else.  PSWs bring Hope and Love.  PSWs make the difference.

 

Merry Christmas one and all.

from an Old Folk who understands the point of view of a resident in LTC.

Natrice Rese PSW

NRese@opswa.com    http://www.opswa.com

 

 

 

 

Blog about Seniors and their Guardian angels

Today I want to comment about seniors, the very elderly, the special care clients and those who have dementia, brain injury and similar special concerns.

These clients and residents are Vulnerable with a capital V!  These clients depend totally on their PSW, DSW, HCA, whatever the title of the caregiver personally involved with them.

Personally I can tell you from the family member point of view that your gut tells you a lot about caregivers.  Personally as a PSW who worked in facilities I can tell you my gut worked then too.  Unfortunately I was not able to act on the feelings I had – regarding those who did a good job and those who didnt.  Why? Because whistleblowers are ostracized, excluded, shunned, and not to mention you will be kicked out of the facility…because???? you are a troublemaker.  Not to mention that if you whistleblow…everyone knows who did it, and because the RNs come into the staff room and listen and hound you until someone tells!  Once you are known as someone who stands up for others and tells the truth, and speaks about physical abuse, rudeness, verbal and emotional abuse…..well, they want to literally get rid of you as fast as they can run your little tush out of the building.

This is no fairy tale.  OPSWA and our staff talk to PSWs daily, weekly, at meetings, on the phone, by email and in person.  PSWs tell us about the abominable behaviour that goes on, the rules, the stresses, and I know that they wonder why they got into this field.  It is really hard to remember that you came to this job because you care for people.  When you become a PSW, it feels more like you are hurting than helping, when you have to get 10 to 15 people up in a two hour period…before breakfast and by the way do at least one of your two baths.  When you come to work day in and day out, and the first thing you do is go to the board and see who is NOT coming into work today…and you go back to the staffroom, to fortify yourself with a snack and coffee…and you sigh and know that your energy level (which at full staff will be depleted in 8 hrs) is now going to be running on a dangerous low level….increasing stress and possible injury to you, and increasing the risk of injury and anguish to your residents who will ring more, yell at you for help, be uncomfortable in their brief for too long, lay in one position for too long.

No matter how many times this is discussed, it is still happening daily for our vulnerable seniors.

I want to celebrate the Guardian Angels who do their best and beyond each and every day.  Without the PSWs who show their compassion, work as a team, can multitask and bring humour to the job as well as a warm and caring attitude to their clients and residents – our facilities would be in a crisis situation.  It already is…its just always humming under the line of OVERLOAD!  It has been this way for years and I wonder how much longer it can keep going.

Can you imagine what it would be like to have residents waiting in rooms for care, food, personal change, transport to the bathroom to void like they used to do in the real world when an exhausted spouse or family member cared for them? or even before that when they could make it on their own?

It is True!  You will be put into diapers even if you dribble like the commercials tell us “oh so tastefully” on Television.  No using simple small pads for your incontinence.  Regardless you will be given personal products that are lumpy, bumpy and plain uncomfortable…but they are the best on the market.  And mark my words, these products are marked on the outside…just like the guage on your car’s gastank…that signify Empty, Half Full and Full!

When will your personal incontinent product be changed?  When it is 75% or more Full!  When will your Guardian angel change it?  If she or he can, they will change you before that, by hiding a brief in your bedroom for your need, by taking it from an emergency brief box….Who thought up that name?  An emergency buffer box of briefs in all sizes…and before you can hand it out to your resident who is sitting and waiting in their wheelchair, or on their bed, or in their bathroom, waiting for attention…..you will have to what?  Tell me this again?  Write down the time of day, the name of the client and the reason for the brief to be taken from the box?

This makes as much sense as inspectors from the Min. of Health only talking to the heads of depts., and when they did speak to PSWs on the floor – they never got the real story – they only got told everything runs just fine here, proud to be part of this establishment!  There are always extra staff put on the floor for Ministry visits – if possible to know in advance.  Keep the Secret, Keep the real story under the bed, Keep the world from finding out that residents are short-changed, fed nothing but crystal packs of instant juice…cheaper than the real stuff…and that meals are of the kind that only dogs would enjoy.  I must admit that on Christmas and Thanksgiving the cooks made real turkeys, and for the most part they did the best they could with the food.  But really?  Not the kind of food I want to live out my days eating.  Not the kind of life I want for myself…even if I have Guardian Angels looking after me.

Its kind of like going to a jail and getting the local snack bar in town bring you over a meal in a box…not quite…but almost.  Its almost like living at home except for the money you pay you have NO rights…NO control over anything.

If you don’t feel quite right and you want to miss a couple of meals in the dining room or just have tea and toast in your room….you are told…by the PSW…who was told by the RN in charge, who was told by the DOC….regimentation must go on.  No staff able to hand deliver food to residents in their room for no reason.  Must attend meals so they are socialized and fit into the regimented rules of the wonderful carpeted, painted and decorated facility that is “just like home”  Yep, do you want to move in yet?  I don’t blame you.

So many times I saw little old ladies in their chairs, peering at writing paper, pen clutched in their hands, writing to the administrator, writing to the Min. of Health of our Province, writing to anyone who they thought would help.   Why?  Because in their old age they were paying upward of $1800 and more a month for personal care, good meals and drinks, clean rooms, Guardian Angels or PSWs to care for them.

If this is Heaven, then we need to put up a sign : “Work in Progress”

There is no money for more help, there is no way that owners of facilities will change the rules.  Rules make the place run right!  Rules are necessary so that meals, baths, care and breaks for staff can happen.  I can tell you that plenty of girls work through their breaks to care for a palliative client.  They work through their supper break, a half hour becomes 15 or 20 minutes because it is impossible to do all the care, get all the duties done before the end of the shift.

Any PSW who gets hired, went through the PSW program, and wants to make a difference – please consider them Guardian angels.  They are!  Ask us for more info.  We have it.

It is more than “just a job”

This letter was sent to OPSWA when we were PSW Canada. I wish I could remember the PSW who sent it in, It moves me to goosebumps everytime I read it, I thought I would share again.

Miranda Ferrier

Dear PSW Canada,

I feel I have one of the hardest and yet one of the most rewarding careers there is.  I am a PSW and NO it doesn’t stand for Professional Shit wiper (although some days you would think that :P) It stands for Personal Support Worker.

I’ve been slapped, punched, kicked, cursed at, bitten, gummed and have had to duck and dodge plates flying towards my head.  I have cried with, and I have laughed with my residents. I have watched them die, and have held the hand of many while they took their last breathe.  I have also become an extended family member, adopted grand daughter, a confidant and a friend.  I am with my residents 260 days out of the 365 in a year.  Often seeing them more than my own family.  And for those reasons is why I say my career choice is one of the hardest and most rewarding ever.

Nothing can beat the twinkles in the eye and the smile on the face of one of your residents when they see you in the morning and you know they are truly happy you are there.

Or getting the Alzheimer’s resident who doesn’t talk to say good morning to you.

Watching a stroke victim put on their shirt for the first time that morning by themselves and celebrating that little victory. Knowing that you are there for that individual when they need it the most.

Some have questioned the reason for me becoming a PSW and some hav e even told me that I sold myself short by not going further with my education.  I say take your trip to europe and shove it.

I can honestly say that I am happy with my career choice, and yes I said career because to me this is way more than “just a job”.

I hold my head high when I say I am a PSW, and now you know why.

PSWs and abuse

” It happens all the time” – ” unfortunately these things occur” – ” You’ll see things here – Keep your mouth shut” – ” Oh She didn’t mean it” – ” we don’t have to tell anyone, it’s not like they are going to do anything about it” – ” I don’t want to lose my job, so I’m not saying anything” – ” I can’t stand up for my residents, I will pay the consequence”  – ” Oh well, who’s gonna notice” – ” it happens everywhere”

These are just a few phrases that come to OPSWA from PSWs regarding abuse. Unacceptable.

If you as a PSW, see or witness or think there is abuse, REPORT IT.

Enough with the cover ups and the excuses, just to make Yourself feel better. PSW is a Profession where you are to PROTECT the vulnerable.

If you cannot do this, Please exit the profession. We need PSWs that are willing to STAND UP and make a difference. Enough is enough. Abuse is everywhere. Nothing will change unless someone says something.

You want protection, join OPSWA. That’s what we are HERE FOR! If you want to be one of the PSWs who cares about your residents/clients, join us, we support you! We will go to bat for our registered PSWs. We have gone to bat for our PSWs and guess what…we have WON.

So think about this next time you see abuse, don’t shrug it off…stand up for those who cannot speak for themselves..make a difference. BE a PSW.

Miranda Ferrier

President

OPSWA

Registry for Ontario’s PSW. History has been made.

I was at Queen’s Park on Thursday May 19th for Minister Deb Matthews announcement about the registry for PSWs, which they are hoping to have up by Summer 2012.

What a remarkable experience it was to be there for history being made. I was surrounded by PSWs who Hooted and whooped and applauded when the announcement was made! I had goosebumps and a smile from ear to ear.

I was honoured when my fellow PSWs turned to me and said “thank you Miranda, without PSW Canada and OPSWA, this wouldn’t have happened”. WOW. We did it PSWs. We screamed loud enough that finally the government has listened. We will now be recognized and respected for what we do day in and out.

But now the real work has begun. As PSWs, you have to ask yourself, who do you want really involved in YOUR registry? Do you want corporate professionals, DR’s? Nurses? Or PSWs? I will point out at this moment that The Ontario personal Support Worker Association is the ONLY association or organization that is run BY PSWs for PSWs and I promise you I will do EVERYTHING in my power to make sure YOUR best interests are at the heart of this registry.

Now is the time to speak up PSWs. No more being quiet with fear of reprisals. You have been recognized by the government as  a vital part of the Health Care team. Congrats!

To the future PSWs, It can only get better from here!

Cheers

Miranda Ferrier

President

Ontario Personal Support Worker Association (OPSWA)

You might not want to be a PSW if….

You might not want to be a Personal Support Worker(PSW) if;

– You have no patience or compassion for those in need

– You are in it for the paycheck instead of the care/people

– You cannot handle high paced environments

– You cannot stand the sight of body fluids

– You do not want to hear stories of the war or days back when

– You cannot Mulitask..

– you cannot be adult about rumors by staying out of it

–  you think the job will be a cake walk

– you cannot watch someone die

– you cannot for as many hours as your shift lasts, put others before yourself

– you care more about your social life at work than your job

– you do not like Seniors or disabled persons

– if you do not want to do everything in your power to make life comfortable up until the very end.

– If you want to be called Nurse and act like one…go take the RPN Course.

– You are in it just for fun..or had nothing else to do. We don’t want you then.

* I am sure there are more than this, but please if you are going into the PSW profession..MAKE SURE YOU REALLY WANT TOO…before you do.

Thank you

Your OPSWA Team